Optimizing Workplace Relationships

To Get The Job Done!

Relationships are the fuel that make sophisticated organizational systems work.

In today’s world, corporations face ever increasing challenges to remain profitable and competitive in their field of expertise. Foundational to a successful working environment is the effectiveness of the relationships within it.

Our Services

I am committed to supporting others to see conflict as working material that can be utilized to bring about solutions both in personal relationships and teams.

Business Consulting in Langley

Business Consulting

The focused and specialized work of Corporate Attachment® is the recovery of and the utilization of the relational life of any organization and team.

Workplace Relationships Langley

Workplace Relationships

Psychological safety and having trusted friendships in the workplace are critical to individual and team performance. Studies show that engagement and productivity

Leadership Management in Langley

Leadership, Mentorship, & Coaching

I coach and support leaders to develop a culture of safety and belonging for their employees.

Attachment Styles

Attachment Codes form early in our development. It is a way of relating established deep in our relational systems and shaped by the interchange with our caregivers.

Conflict Mediation

Regardless of the size of the organization, conflict is inevitable and inescapable. Everyone is an extension of their family and cultural experiences that contribute

Decoding Relational Codes

By raising their teams’ Relational Competencies, organizations experience health and progress while addressing the many unique

ATTACHMENT STYLES

Avoidant

Avoidantly coded people – are very protective of their autonomy. They do not like being micromanaged as it communicates inferiority and triggers their sense of inadequacy. They will shut down and withdraw if they feel like they are being pursued. Being relationally “close” to others feels threatening and is only safe when initiated by them. They are high achievers and are self-directed - can often present as “lone rangers” in the workplace. This can be off-putting and intimidating to colleagues. They require limited oversight and appreciate affirming check-ins occasionally. Though less demanding of attention, they can also feel exempted from accountability.

Anxious

Anxiously coded people – are highly sensitive to relational stressors. They pursue connection at all costs. It is exhausting to them and others. The fear of disconnect is felt in their bodies in a distressing way and is not just an annoying trait they want to live with. Trying to establish a connection with others can appear needy, but it is their impulsive effort to escape the pain of separation. They require constant check-ins to feel that all is well. Their sensitivity can help them recognize others on the team that feels disconnected.

Secure

Securely coded people – can manage their emotions, are confident in exploring and taking risks, are emotionally aware and responsive, and are conflict busters and collaborators. They intuitively engage with anxious, avoidant, and disorganized people in their relational codes. They are the invisible and the visible team builders and are often the stabilizers in team constructs.

Disorganized

Disorganized coded people – have experienced significant trauma in their early life. The sense that relationships are unsafe is deeply embedded in their attachment system. Any form of relational exposure triggers a defense strategy to isolate and become invisible. Their tendency to detach and be loners is not an invitation for others to come close. They work best independently in siloed tasks and separate from others because their sense of self is fractured. Their feeling of unworthiness and self- loathing is their way of rejecting themselves before they experience the pain of rejection in real-time. They prefer no contact.

Meet Abby

Abby Silva – MACP RCC Founder of Corporate Attachment ®

CEO CAAS Workplace Solutions Incorporated Workplace Relationship Specialist

MEDIATOR | AUTHOR | PRESENTER

I am committed to supporting others to see conflict as working material that can be utilized to bring about solutions both in personal relationships and teams. With over 34 years of combined experience in dealing with human complexities, I use evidence-based techniques to assist individuals to understand themselves and others in the context of their environment. My business, leadership and mediation training come together with my accomplishment in the field of clinical psychology to offer a powerful solution-based package for corporate teams.

Extensive training in conflict resolution and my deep understanding of the human psyche allow me to identify the injury and conflict spots in individual and corporate relationships. I work with leaders, managers and employees, supporting them to become self-attuned so they are able to cultivate safe and trusting relationships in the workplace by addressing relational injuries and establishing tailored formulas for reconnection.

Need Help? Call Us, Today.

Call us today : (250) 777-2566 or Email us at abby@corporateattachment.com

34 years of combined experience in dealing with human complexities

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